The Tingling Daemon
What You'll need.
1.) Find something to place in you vagina that will press your urethra shut. Something which, due to it's size and/or shape, will compress your urethra so your water cannot come out unless it is removed.
2.) Get some "Hot Pink - Vaginal Lube for Women". Really, you can use what ever your favorite lube is, cooling lube works well too. If you're a "red-neck", or your trying to save money, plain old K Y jelly with a little menthol, or toothpaste, might work for some people not others. If it's too strong dilute it.
3.) Any type of of oil. This is for the area over your bladder. Baby Oil works fine.
Really the lube would work fine too, but at $4 to $20 a bottle, I'd rather use something cheaper when lube is not necessary.
4.) A vibrating object. Not a dildo type, unless that is all you have, but one with a broad head. It'll be used mostly over your "smile" and the area over and around your bladder.
5.) Some place you can lay on your back, and some privacy. You might also want to consider being able to change positions, and get up without using your abs much.
What to do
When you reach the point where you can still hold your pee in, but to do so is starting to become "hard work";
Gently lube & insert the object. Work it up into your vagina slowly as you hold. It will block your urethra, so that now holding it is easy as long as you don't let it slip out, but the urge to let go will be very strong. Holding on to pee, becomes very much like holding on to sexual energy. Just a matter of virtue and choice.
Give your body a few moments to adjust to this experience.
Just relax, and peacefully enjoy this new state. Your water truly no longer has to come out until you decide to let it. While all the sensations and urges of needing to pee are still their, rolling around inside your bladder, you can just relax and quietly enjoy them with little effort. You can even let your body try to pee, knowing it can't, so long as you make the choice not to let go of the object in your vagina. Or, you can quietly try to "stop" your pee reflex from happening with your mind, without having to make a physical effort or worrying you might "leak" if your reflexes slip a little.
Lay back, and let the volume of your bladder roll back and up, into your belly.
Fell the sensation of letting you full bladder grow and swell inside you. Allow yourself to relax since your pussy no longer has a nasty, annoying, way for any pee to come out. Let your bladder fill you up with pleasure as it expands. Relax, keeping the pee inside no longer takes any work. Just relax and enjoy the sensations.
When your ready, lube yourself, take your vibrator, and play;
Start where ever you like, I'd suggest your vulva first. Use what ever force you're most comfortable with. Masturbate. But keep it gentle at first. Slowly build up while your body gets accustomed to the feeling. Stay away from your clit for the first few minutes, so the feeling is not too "overwhelming".
Be sensuous, while your playing, use a free hand to lightly spread the baby oil over your bladder.
Start to play the area over your bladder lightly once the play with your pussy gets going. Remember, the point of this is to be able to enjoy the fullness while in a relaxed state. Free of worry you might leak, and without having to do the actual "work" of holding your pee in. Control of your urine, is now entirely a matter of controlling your desire, with little tension or physical strain involved.
Go with the feeling. Use your hands, lubes, and vibrators.
Arouse and encourage those sensations you most enjoy, while messaging away anything that detracts from your pleasure. If a cramp starts to form along part of your bladder, gently rub it away with your vibrator. You want to be gentle, but persistent, with your bladder. There is no need to force it with the object in place, but you do want to make a firm, yet gentle, effort to guide your bladder to behave itself. If it tries to spasm, message the spasm away. Make it obey and be patient for you. Help it learn to relax and enjoy the sensation of being held full.
Relax and enjoy the tingling, vibrating, sensations of your bladders tightly stretched walls.
Used your vibrator, if you like, to press and vibrate into it. Observe and enjoy the feeling as the energy and force inside your bladder grows; to fill you up and press against your insides.
Thoughts of wanting to pee? Message your bladder more.
Use the vibrator to numb where it aches, subdue when it wants to go, and encourage your bladder to hold on when it makes a sensation you enjoy. Your vibrator is your tool to both encourage your bladder to wait, and reward it for holding in your pee for you. It can be used BOTH to suppress a desire to pee, and convert the sensations into a pleasurable feeling to replace the desire with a desire to hold your water in longer.
When your pussy starts to tingle and feel horny, message it in kind.
Press the vibrator into you, work your pussy, exploit the tingling urge and make it feel good.
You can continue this way as long as you like, need a little more intensity drink more water.
Wine coolers are great and relaxing for this too. Remember, if it hurts in a way you enjoy press into the pain so it hurts more. But if it hurts in a way you don't like, gently message the pain away. Use your vibrator both to calm your bladder, and intensify and play with the feelings building up inside it.
When you cum, hold the object in with your fingers.
Cumming on a full bladder can be painful sometimes, but as we all know, pain is part of being a girl if you're in a fancy place with no toilet. Don't give into the desire to pee while you are cumming. If you wait till after, it'll be worth the wait.